Before working with Vicki I was living my life in a shadow…

It is difficult to put into words the effect that Vicki has had in terms of how I look at life compared to how I felt before receiving coaching from Vicki.    Before Vicki (BV) I was living my life in a shadow, afraid to confront fears or take steps towards uncomfortable feelings. I was afraid of feeling or facing my fears, like driving on motorways, accepting my psoriasis or making myself open to connections.   I still have those fears but they have been reduced substantially through working with Vicki. She gave me a safe space, she was thoughtful and kind in all aspects but at the same time challenged long time held beliefs.   It wasn't easy but I allowed myself to be vulnerable in her presence. I had tended to put forward a mask of happiness and perfection and at the beginning I reverted to that stance. But gradually the feeling of safety with Vicki allowed me to be vulnerable which has been a huge step for me. My sharing of a poem on Facebook of how I'm affected by psoriasis was a biggie.    With her support and guidance I have become more accepting of my life and I'm taking steps to make myself more open to possibilities. If I retreat to old ways of thinking I hear her voice in my head and change direction or have an acceptance of my thoughts.   It is fair to say she is an inspiration to me. She was and is accommodating and real. I love that I still hear from her on her podcasts or on Facebook where she is always willing to share her own feelings and thoughts.   I will be forever grateful to Vicki for helping me when I was struggling and coasting. She...